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Showing posts with label Division of Assets and Debts. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Division of Assets and Debts. Show all posts

Monday, July 12, 2021

Will Divorce Affect My Credit Score?

 


No.  According to Experian, Divorce, itself, will not affect your credit score.  However the process of splitting up joint accounts, and vindictive exes racking up credit on cards in your name could lower your credit.

The best ways to protect your credit are to try and pay off as many debts as possible, and maintain a civil relationship with your ex.  Close existing joint accounts and remove the ex as an authorized user where possible.  

Before you consider trying to be the spouse that ruins your ex's credit, keep in mind that the Courts don't take too kindly to vindictive spouses that come before them, and may award your ex a more favorable offset of the marital assets to punish you for maliciously increasing debts or refusing to pay bills.  Courts in Colorado are not required to divide marital property 50/50, and have broad discretion to punish a spouse for what they deem "economic fault."  

For tips on how anticipate how the Court will divide assets and debts, and for advice on allocating debt payments during the pendency of the divorce, order your copy of Family Law Boot Camp today.


Friday, July 9, 2021

Who Gets What in a Divorce?


The law in Colorado requires courts to divide the marital estate “equitably.”  Note this does not say “equally.”  While Courts do usually try to divide the assets and debts equally, the law grants the courts discretion to award a more favorable allocation to one spouse if the other spouse wasted marital assets in anticipation of divorce.  Put another way, if you know you are going to file for #divorce and you go to Blackhawk and blow $20,000, the Court can award more money to your ex to pay them back for what you spent. 

Courts use an asset division spreadsheet like the one in the link below to calculate an equal or equitable division of assets.  The Court enters the values of the tangible property, like houses and cars, the value of the cash and investment accounts, and the value of all marital debts to come up with a net value of the marital estate.

Here is an asset division spreadsheet for you to download for use in your case.  

In this example, column A is where you enter the name of the asset; B is where you enter the exhibit number if you are using this at trial; C is for Fair Market Value of the Asset; D is for the loan on the asset (such as a mortgage on the house or the car loan which lowers the equitable value of that asset); E is the Net Equitable value of the asset; F is the non-marital value of the asset (the amount that a spouse may have come into the marriage with in that assets); G is the Net Marital value of the asset – this is the amount the Court must divide between spouses; and columns H and I are where you can play with the allocation of the marital value to figure out what would be an overall fair allocation.  Column J is used to check yourself to ensure you allocated all the values.  All line items in Column J should be zeroed if you’ve allocated everything.

You’ll see in the example that I put in phony debts, assets and values to show you how this works.  While each asset or debt is not necessarily divided equally, the net division at the bottom of the spreadsheet comes out to be a 50/50 allocation.  In the example, I used the house to equalize the otherwise uneven division of assets.  There are countless reasons that parties do not divide every single asset 50/50.  One reason is that it is a pain to do so, and it is easier to just allocate entire assets to one or the other spouse and equalize with the largest asset.  Another reason may be that one spouse has an emotional tie to something, such as a collectible.  In this case, Spouse 1 got the entire gun collection.  Collections require valuing several pieces and often one spouse may have an affinity for the collection more than the other. 

You will also notice a non-marital value entered for each retirement fund.  This is because each spouse came into the marriage with the fund already in existence.  Only the appreciated value is marital property.  I also put in the MISC section that Spouse 1 got an inheritance.  As long as inherited money is kept separately titled it retains its non-marital classification. So this entire asset is not subject to division.

TIP:  The burden to prove something is separate property is on the party claiming this so if you it’s you, make sure you produce statements showing the value as of the date of marriage to prove the non-marital value is what you say it is.

There are many ways these assets could have been divided, so take the example as just one of countless possibilities.

Use this spreadsheet to enter your assets and debts to figure out ways the court may allocate your property, and to show the court why what you’re asking for is fair and equitable.

One thing you should consider doing is divide the retirement assets equally, and do not try to equalize these with other assets because they typically have different tax consequences (many are deferred-tax dollars).  Also, if you are listing Roth and Traditional IRAs, you might do this as well as those have different tax consequences.  You can also reduce the value of the deferred tax assets to arrive at an after-tax value. 

Pick up a copy of Family Law Boot Camp for more detail on what the Court considers in dividing assets and debts, and how to best argue for the the allocation you want.





Tuesday, August 5, 2014

Fighting Over the Face Wash

Going through a break up is like hanging from a cliff.  You start grabbing at anything to pull you back.  A flimsy branch; the flat ground; the old t-shirt you left at her house.  If you’re going through a divorce the goofy stuff you’re clinging to is just on a larger scale:  the dog paintings you bought at the flea market; the couch that no one sits on. 

Sometimes people fight over material things as a way of holding on to the relationship.  Subconsciously having that bad relationship of fighting is better than having no relationship.  By continuing to find something to fight over, the relationship still exists.  Once there is nothing to fight over, they’ve lost that hold on the other person.  

I used to keep face wash and moisturizer at my ex-boyfriend’s house.  And probably a tooth brush too.  But that’s it.  I didn’t have anything of value there.  I had the same face wash and moisturizer at my own house, and honestly if he’d lost it, I never would have cared.  But when he dumped me, I never wanted anything more in my life.  And to feed my obsession, instead of asking for it, I waited . . . and waited . . . and waited to see if he’d bring it to me, but he didn’t.  So I convinced myself he must be keeping it to make me ask him for it.  After a while I convinced myself he would refuse to ever give it back.  Anger began to build inside of me.  “How DARE that sonofabitch keep MY Aveda face wash?  He’s probably given it to some new girl to use!,” said the PG-13 version of my inner monologue.   I finally got so furious I sent him an angry email demanding he bring me my face wash.  

He did.  Immediately.  My balloon was popped.  It was over.  I felt like someone let the air out of my chest.  That was it.  There was nothing left connecting me to him.  There was no reason anymore to talk to him.  He could officially be done with my crazy ass.

They say the best way to take control back from someone trying to control you, is to let go of the thing they’re using to control you.  In my case, I was trying to keep a hold of that relationship by having face wash at his house.  Just by having it there.  Once he gave it back, he cut that tie.  I could have taken the control back of my own life by just letting him keep that stupid face wash and forgetting about it.  

Be willing to let go of the material things.  You may be thinking, “yeah but yours was just face wash.  Mine is valuable.  I need to fight for this.”  No you don’t.  You can’t take it with you when you die any more than I can take my face wash.  It’s all face wash.  Buy a new one.  Why do you want it anyway?  It’s got memories of the ex attached to it.  Be honest with yourself.  Why are you really fighting over that stuff?   Trust me when I say you’ll be much happier in the long run if you let it go.  (Elsa, amirite?)  You’ll feel empowered, and the ex will probably be hurt that you were able to let go so easily, so that’s at least one benefit, right?  

Alisha          


Friday, February 3, 2012

When Can Fault Be Considering in Dividing Marital Property?

Colorado, like most states now, is a no-fault divorce state.  This means that people may divorce without the need to show fault by one of the parties.  In fact, in Colorado, Courts are prohibited from considering marital fault or misconduct, such as infidelity, when dividing marital assets[i].  The courts may, however, consider “economic” fault.  The law states, a Court “shall divide the marital property, without regard to marital misconduct, in such proportions as the court deems just after considering all relevant factors including:

(a) The contribution of each spouse to the acquisition of the marital property, including the
contribution of a spouse as homemaker;
(b) The value of the property set apart to each spouse;
(c) The economic circumstances of each spouse at the time the division of property is to
become effective, including the desirability of awarding the family home or the right to live therein
for reasonable periods to the spouse with whom any children reside the majority of the time; and
(d) Any increases or decreases in the value of the separate property of the spouse during the marriage or the depletion of the separate property for marital purposes.”

Colo. Rev. Stat. § 14-10-113(1) (2011).

Unlike other states, Colorado is not a “community property” state[ii].  This means that the parties need not be accorded equal shares in the marital estate[iii].    The Court is required to distribute property equitably, not equally[iv].  Because of this, the Court may consider a variety of factors.  There is no mathematical formula for establishing a just and equitable property settlement or alimony[v].         
                                                                                                    
Economic fault comes into play when a spouse dissipates marital assets in contemplation of divorce[vi].  For example, if a husband buys a Harley Davidson for himself just before filing for divorce, the Court is more likely to apportion the assets and debts to offset that expense so the spouse who bought the Harley bears the debt.  Economic fault may also be considered in apportioning debt and assets if one spouse incurred gambling debt, expenses associated with criminal conviction and incarceration[vii], or one spouse damaged the property of the other spouse in retaliation.  In one case, where a wife, in an outburst of emotion, damaged and destroyed the husband’s personal effects, the Colorado Supreme Court upheld the trial’s court’s decision to award the husband the value of those assets against the wife.  Cohan v. Cohan, 372 P.2d 149 (Colo. 1962).  In short, while the Court may not consider the moral and social impacts of a spouse’s conduct during the marriage, it may consider the economic consequences of such conduct in apportioning debt and assets in order to effect an equitable division [viii].

You can protect yourself by not hiding assets, refraining from making expensive purchases just before filing, and of course, refraining from incurring huge gambling debts or destroying your spouse’s property in anger. Make sure to tell your attorney all the reasons you believe property should be divided a particular way.  If you would like to discuss how your property may be divided, contact me through www.taibolaw.com or at (303) 653-2509.



[i] In re Jorgenson, 143 P.3d 1169, 1173 (Colo. App. 2006) (citing § 14-10-113(1), C.R.S. and In re Casias, 962 P.2d 999 (Colo. App. 1998)).
[ii]  In re Ellis, 538 P.2d 1347 (Colo. App. 1975), aff’d, 552 P.2d 506 (Colo. 1976).
[iii]  In re Boyd, 643 P.2d 804 (Colo. App. 1982).
[iv] In re Warrington, 44 Colo. App. 294, 616 P.2d 177 (Colo. 1980).
[v] Carlson v. Carlson, 497 P.2d 1006 (Colo. 1972).
[vi] In re Jorgenson, 143 P.3d at 1173 (citing In re Hunt, 909 P.2d 525 (Colo. 1995)).  
[vii] In re Casias, 962 P.2d 999, 1002 (Colo. App. 1998).
[viii] In re Casias, 962 P.2d 999, 1002 (Colo. App. 1998) (internal citation omitted).

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